Why Do Narcissistic Mates Set Out To Destroy Holidays And Birthdays? My BD Is Tomorrow And My Narc Started An Argument Yesterday So He Can Give Me The Silent Treatment On My Birthday. It’s a form of covert sabotage. His goal is to ruin your happiness and keep the attention on himself. Narcissists are very jealous. For example, you have to attend a work event because you’re getting an award. The narcissist may hide your car keys, or “accidentally” spill a drink on your thank-you speech. Anything to wreak havoc on your joy. If you’re looking forward to seeing your … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists, Holidays, And Covert Sabotage
Might A Narcissist Secretly Inflict Physical Harm On A Victim? Hell yes, they will. But you’ll probably never be able to prove it. With that said, I’ll give you a few examples of how my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband secretly inflicted physical harm on me. He gave me a glass of Kool-Aid laced with enough meth to kill two adult men. I ended up in Intensive Care, and came very close to dying. I found out later that he told the doctors I’d intentionally overdosed. Since I was unconscious at the time, I couldn’t dispute his lies. When I regained consciousness, … Continue reading Quora Answers: Narcissists And Covert Abuse
I’ve Had This Sick Feeling In My Gut That My Covert Narcissist Husband Is Cheating On Me With A Good Friend. Can’t Find Proof. Could My Intuition Be Wrong Because Of The Years Of Emotional Abuse? I wish I could say you’re just being paranoid and should give him the benefit of the doubt, but that wouldn’t be realistic. Your gut is telling you what your heart doesn’t want to accept. The emotional abuse you’ve endured isn’t causing your intuition to be erroneous. It does appear to be causing you to have cognitive dissonance, though. Deep down, you know he’s … Continue reading Quora Answers: The Cheating Narcissist
My experiences proved covert narcissists to actually be easier to get along with. At face value, anyway. Not that an overt narcissist is always harder. Sometimes they’re downright jovial and funny. They can appear to be very easy to get along with. As long as they’re the center of attention. If you listen to their stories, laugh at their jokes, and remain a captive audience, overt narcissists can seem to be perfectly agreeable and easygoing. It’s when you get tired of hearing their stories, or grow bored with their jokes, that things change. When you attempt to remove yourself, they … Continue reading Quora Answers: Are Overt Narcissists Easier To Get Along With?
Do Narcissists’ Lies And Betrayals Eventually Catch Up To Them? If So, What Happens When That Time Comes? I know it seems like narcissists get away with their lies and betrayals without ever facing consequences. And for a long time, they do. Eventually though, it will catch up to them. I’ll tell you about the three narcs who were the most destructive to my life. And where they are now. I’ll start with my Malignant Narcissist ex-husband. After spending several months in jail for cracking my skull and injuring our son’s toe, he was homeless and jobless. His friends refused … Continue reading Quora Answers: Three Narcissists Who Had To Face The Music
Why Not Covert & Overt Narcissists? Why Covert & Malignant Instead? What’s The Difference Between Overt & Malignant? The terms “covert” and “overt” are describe the type of behavior patterns and narcissistic tendencies that someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) displays to the world. Covert behaviors mean the affected person hides their narcissistic tendencies. Their actions are introverted, or closeted. They actively sabotage the lives of others. But they do it undercover. This makes it harder to identify whether or not they’re a narcissist. It also enables them to abuse people indiscriminately. But generally without ever coming under suspicion. Like … Continue reading Quora Answers: Explanation Of Covert, Overt, And Malignant Narcissists